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For many people, self-criticism and motivation feel connected. This post invites reflection and offers a compassionate alternative rooted in nervous system awareness.
How do we break the cycle of judgment? Curiosity. If you're a high achiever, you haven't gotten to where you are in life without having strong judgment skills, especially if there has been a history of trauma or chronic stress. Humans are biologically wired for survival. When the survival brain is hard at work judging comes naturally, so shifting out of judgment takes focus and intention. It takes self-awareness, a regulated nervous system, curious observation, and self-compa
